There is an old saying, "without trust, there is no love." Is this true?
Well, one thing is for sure, love with trust lasts a lot longer than love without it.
Are you struggling to find trust in your relationship? Losing trust for a partner is not uncommon. Insults, put-downs, disrespect, affairs, mismanagement of business or money, and numerous other things will all contribute to losing trust.
I think before we define whether or not love can exist without trust, we have to fully understand what love is. Of course, I have to clarify that I'm talking about the love between two people in a relationship. There are many different types of love. Some like the love of chocolate or the love for a baby do not require trust.
Love is delicate. It doesn't revolve around lust, infatuation, obsession, or comfort. It is something that withstands all tests of time if it is true. This relation can be formed if both persons implicitly know every detail about the other. Therefore, if true love exists, it creates absolute trust. Love and trust are truly one and the same in this sense. The only way love can be destroyed is if one or both persons are revealed to be something different than they were perceived to be. So if the trust is broken, the mind and heart question the reality of the love, and therefore let it go.
Do we love first and trust later or trust first and love later?
Love without trust is nothing. Personally I don’t think that you can truly love a person if you can’t trust them. It can be an illusion or a crush but not true love. If you can trust a person then you can’t have a meaningful relationship with that person. It’s just that two people want to live will each other, nothing more. Love without trust is no love at all.
Love is based on trust. If one breaks that trust the bond can never be the same. Yes people try, but forgetting is near impossible, and your heart will always know.
Here I want to share one “Doha” by Rahim
“RAHIMAN DHAGA PREM KA MAT TODO CHITKAY
TUTE SE PHIR NA JUDE JO JUDE TO GATH PAD JAYE”
Without trust you begin to worry day and night somehow gaining insecurities within yourself that make you question the love. You start to feel unworthy, you have so much to say, will there ever be trust or just that constant pain, because of those feelings there's an emptiness in your heart.
So at last I want to say that you couldn’t truly love someone until you could completely trust them.
Rohit,I must appreciate your efforts for writting the blog....Good to see budding managers expressing thoughts on trust and love so beautifully....I feel 'trust' is the base of everything we do, as an individual unless and untill one trust himself/herself couldn't stand any struggle in life and no doubt the value of trust would increase when the bond is between two people who are sharing the lives together. Keep up the good work...Best Wishes
ReplyDeleteRupal
Hi Rohit, great effort. You know best thing i like in your wrote about trust. In this era we have lost our root value. You enlightened us n realized value of trust through "Doha". Thank you
ReplyDeletenice blog good keep it up!!!
ReplyDeleteRohit,
ReplyDeleteNicely written.
Most of the people have fogotten words like TRUST, LOVE, CARE. So thanks for writing about it.
The line i liked the most is "Love and trust are truly one and the same".What a deep meaning it has!!!!
Best wishes,
Seema
Rohit, it is very nicely compiled in words because in present day's scenario words like obsession, lust, etc are only in airs........so the one who is in true love will understand the meaning of TRUST and this won't be a forceful work but a gradual and natural approach.
ReplyDeleteApoorva
Right said Rohit...trust can not be separated from love. You have explained things in right manner.
ReplyDeleteI liked all your blogs and wish that you will keep writing .
Rohit, nicely written. a true picture about love nd trust. 2days time is very bad, evry body dont no the meaning of this bt those who know they can only get benifit out of this.i like this best of luck for your future keep writing.
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